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Gabrielle Blair's avatar

Urgh. When you function as your own editor, it's not unusual to have typos slip through sometimes. But today, my mistakes were too much! I just made 10 different typo fixes (and maybe I missed some). Sorry about that to anyone who read the sloppy writing.

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One of my children is on the autism spectrum. I took him to see our GP in the 1990s because someone suggested he might have ADHD (he doesn’t). The GP told me that my son would “grow out of it” (“it” being my son’s behaviours of concern). My son did not ‘grow out of’ any of his difficulties, but he did learn to manage his frustrations in more socially-acceptable ways. As for being able to care for himself, my son was toilet-trained at an earlier age than his siblings; spoke fluently when he was only a toddler; was adept at looking after himself before he started pre-school; kept his room tidier than his siblings kept their rooms and was more conscientious about maintaining good hygiene than his siblings. Yes, he was different to most of his peers, but he was also hard-working, responsible, reliable, conscientious, intelligent, curious about the world, well-read, honest and a good person, with what I termed as ‘idiosyncratic’ behaviours. He was not diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum until he was aged 20, and that was because autism was not widely understood or recognised when he was a little boy. While my son was definitely difficult to raise when he was young, he has grown into a very capable, highly intelligent, well-educated man who is very well-respected by his peers. He absolutely lives independently and definitely works and ‘pays taxes’. He contributes to society in many ways because he is a born-leader and has many areas of interest that he devotes his time to. I value his opinions and insights. He sees the world differently to me and I appreciate his viewpoints because they help me to see things in a different light to what I otherwise would. He helps me to be a better, more well-rounded person.

While my son is ‘different’ in the way he thinks, ‘different’ does not mean ‘bad’. For society to function well and to progress, we need people who can think ‘outside the box’. And autism is a spectrum, meaning people diagnosed with ‘autism’ range from highly intelligent, capable individuals through to individuals who need assistance with all activities of daily living. Anyone who paints all individuals with autism as having the same characteristics is ignorant.

Ignorant people should not be in leadership positions, lest they spread their ignorance. Leaders need to educate themselves before they spout nonsense and spread lies about matters of which they have an incomplete and inaccurate understanding.

We are not American and do not live in America, but from the information I have heard and read, America lacks sensible, well-educated leaders at present, and ignorance is not preventing America’s leaders from spreading inaccurate nonsense and lies. It would be embarrassing if it was not so damaging to individuals and society as a whole. The idea of establishing an autism register is abhorrent. For what purpose? How is this in the slightest bit helpful? I cannot see this as anything other than a means to ostracise and discriminate against a particular group of people. A person’s medical diagnoses are no one else’s business unless such diagnoses may affect others.

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